Hello Dear Readers,
My hospitality roots run deep. Though recent headlines may suggest otherwise, my home state is known for “Hoosier Hospitality.” Hospitality is also a way of life in the Philippines. Now more than ever, it feels important to ground myself in these roots and to spread the message of welcome. I hope these resources offer ideas and inspiration.
IN MY OWN WORDS
Packed with Love, 3/2025: Inspired by mi suegra and my mom, a post on the common thread of mothers everywhere — preparing children for life’s journeys.
The Glow of Connection, Redbud Hyphen, 1/2025: A mini-essay on slowing down and savoring our time so we can connect more deeply.
INSPIRATION
The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker is a thoughtful go-to resource for planning your next gathering, whether a work meeting or a family dinner. She shares helpful, unique ways to make gatherings (and life) more meaningful. Parker’s TED Talk offers a quick overview.
“Gatherings crackle and flourish when real thought goes into them, when (often invisible) structure is baked into them, and when a host has the curiosity, willingness, and generosity of spirit to try.” — Priya Parker, The Art of Gathering
Women of Welcome brings together Christian faith and advocacy for immigrants and refugees. I respect the way they navigate complex issues through the lens of welcome. (It’s especially helpful for my family as we host immigrant foster kids.)
No Taste Like Home is so good for many reasons (the food!), and as it relates to hospitality, EP5 with Issa Rae highlights a Senegalese value called “teranga” that embodies ‘good hospitality’ — welcoming strangers and sharing what you have.
CONNECTION
Greetings can be the first act of hospitality but can look different around the world. I grew up giving my hand to elders to bless me, as is the Filipino custom. When I lived in Spain, we kissed each other’s cheeks two times. Then, I married an Argentinean, and the cheek-kissing continued. Of course, at home in America, lots of hugs!
ENCOURAGEMENT
Naomi Shihab Nye’s poem “Red Brocade” hung in my kitchen for years. It subtly invites and reminds us that, yes, we have time (and hearts) to welcome strangers.
“The Arabs used to say,
When a stranger appears at your door,
feed him for three days
before asking who he is,
where he’s come from,
where he’s headed.
That way, he’ll have strength
enough to answer.
Or, by then you’ll be
such good friends
you don’t care…”
Read the full poem here: https://poets.org/poem/red-brocade.
How have you experienced HOSPITALITY in your life? I know I have lots of friends who write about hospitality too. Share a link or story in the comments!